The 77th generation of Qing Shui Ya Men's free and easy residence, family affairs

  Ruyu was also taken aback, but after thinking carefully about the words and actions of Old Lady Chen earlier, she looked at her grandmother with utmost admiration, "Grandmother's insight in judging people has always been unparalleled. Then... is there no chance for the Chen family?"

  Old Lady Chen said, "The second son of the Chen family is not a picky person, and their family is nothing special. They only have some military achievements because of Old Master Chen. That's why they dare to show off in front of us. Ha! Our family's Qinger, in terms of looks, family background, and talent, which one doesn't surpass theirs? And yet they still dare to make such a blatant calculation."

  The old lady's thoughts are not hard to understand, just like a rural boy who ran out of the countryside and fell in love with a city girl from a wealthy family. He wants to marry her, but after meeting her parents and seeing her wealth and resources, he is torn between two concerns: on one hand, he thinks she is too weak and may not be able to bear children; on the other hand, he fears that she will look down on him because of her city upbringing and he, a rural old lady, won't be able to control his daughter-in-law. In every aspect, it reveals a narrow-minded consciousness of a rural woman - wanting fish and bear's paw at the same time, wanting to get the resources from the city girl while also expecting her to be obedient and respectful like all daughters-in-law.

  This is probably the common idea of rural mothers-in-law under heaven, and it's really not their fault. Looking at modern times, peacock women who marry men with slightly stronger families can only be labeled as disobedient and unkind to their parents and rural relatives, while weaker ones can only have their resources taken away, being treated like a cow without even getting grass to eat, let alone praise. In the end, many couples get divorced... However, as times change and ideas are different now, such rural mothers-in-law no longer evoke feelings of sadness and powerlessness in her heart; it's unclear whether she has become stronger or just numb.

  If it were really Old Lady Ji who had made such a comment about Old Lady Chen, although it would be quite embarrassing, there would also be nothing to say in refutation, because what she said was indeed the truth.

  But if it's true, she also has her own thoughts. "I know that Old Lady Chen really can't be brought out in public. But my granddaughter has other ideas. What I mean is, if Zhen'er marries into the Chen family in the future and this young master of the Chen family is indeed a talented person, with some effort to curry favor, she will follow the young master of the Chen family to his post, and at that time, who can control her? Moreover, the emperor has already issued an edict to transfer your grandson-in-law to the Imperial Guard. At that time, it's highly likely that the position of Colonel of the Imperial Guard will be this young master of the Chen family. Your grandson-in-law thinks that this young master of the Chen family is a straightforward person and loves his brothers very much. If he officially takes over as Colonel, the Chen family will rise to prominence. At that time, the door of the Chen family will also go up another level."

  Li's mind quickly started calculating as soon as he heard it.

  Although Xiarui Sanling is a third-class official, it's still quite difficult to support his brothers who are from a humble background. At that time, he would still have to rely on his wife's family for support.

  The old lady covered her eyes and looked at him as if she was seeing the truth, "Has Brother-in-law been promoted? Such a big happy event, yet you're keeping it from me. You deserve to be beaten, you deserve to be beaten."

  He Lin also had a good scolding. With a coy smile, "Isn't it that the imperial edict hasn't been issued yet? Your grandson-in-law said to wait until he arrives at his post before letting me speak."

  The old lady asked: "This time, where is the young master going to be transferred to?"

  "Deputy Commander of the Nanjing Garrison."

  Although the ranking of this ancient general is not very clear, the old lady is very clear. She smiled and said: "Although it's just a flat tune, they are all in charge of the military administration of one side, each leading their own guards, and listening to the Ministry of War. From the guards down, many officials and soldiers have inherited for generations. Good boy, you're so fierce, if your big brother grows up well in the future, he can directly inherit his father's official position, congratulations! You've finally made it through, Zhen Niang." Thinking about how much suffering she had endured in the Pingyang Hou Mansion in her early years, her tone was also full of sighs.

  When Ru Xian heard the words, her eyes turned red. She took out a handkerchief and wiped away tears from the corners of her eyes, saying in a low voice: "Thank you for your kind words, Grandmother. I indeed have managed to make something of myself. But if it weren't for your guidance and teachings since I was young, there wouldn't be the me today. And also, my husband is still quite capable. After all, thanks to the connections of the Qing Chang Hou Fu, he managed to get this job. But as the wife of the Wang Fu's eldest son, having a handkerchief from an official courtesan is also a blow to Ru Shan's reputation and face."

  The shock on Qing's face was too obvious, and Mei seemed pleased with herself. "You also think this method is great, don't you? Unfortunately, it can't be implemented now."

  After a long while, she said: "Third sister's method is indeed ruthless. Fortunately, it wasn't carried out, otherwise, wouldn't our Fang family's daughter be completely discredited?"

  As beautiful as a raised eyebrow, at first I didn't understand, but soon thought of the reason behind it, my expression turned gloomy, took a deep breath, and felt a lingering fear in my heart, "You're right, I didn't think of that."

  As soon as she saw her, she readily admitted her mistake, and also slightly breathed a sigh of relief, throwing away the sudden tension that had risen in her heart, and recovering her smile. "Third sister and second sister have been at odds since childhood. Only you could come up with such a reckless method. However, no matter how unbearable second sister is, she is still a daughter of the Fang family after all. Third sister must remember this."

  She looked at Ruqing with a sincere expression, her face flushing as she nodded stiffly. In a low voice, she said, "You're right, no matter what, I'm still Fang's daughter."

  In ancient times, what was emphasized was the power of the family. When one prospers, all prosper; when one suffers a loss, all suffer together. If someone in a family brings shame, it will also affect other innocent people in the same clan. Whether you believe it or not, whether you like it or not.

  As she thought about the fatal mistake she almost made, she also broke out in a cold sweat. But she had always been proud in front of Ruhua and was not willing to admit defeat verbally, so she couldn't help but retort, "You're really thick-skinned. It seems you've forgotten how she treated you that day."

  Her expression unchanged, she smiled faintly and said, "I only do what I should. Besides, Aunt Hua has always taught us that being a woman is not easy, and we must think thrice before acting. In my opinion, any grievances or disputes between sisters can be resolved privately, no need to bring it up in public." That day, Ruxin didn't take advantage of the situation either, so she didn't bother to make an issue out of it. Anyway, she had already made a small profit for herself.

  She gazed at Ru Mo in a daze, thinking about what she had just said, and suddenly realized something. She put away her previous disdain and arrogance, and spoke softly: "No wonder Father, Brother, and Sister-in-law all love you so much." Now, she finally understood where she was lacking.

  It was as if she had suddenly discovered that Mei's tone when speaking to her was, for the first time, not sarcastic or cutting. But she didn't say anything else, only saying: "Sister is getting married, and as a younger sister, I don't know what to say, I just hope that you and your husband will have a deep and harmonious relationship."

  "As Mei Da Fang accepted, 'I also hope that my sister can find her ideal husband soon.'"

  Yu Qing smiled and nodded, "I'm so clever and lovely, I'll definitely be able to."

  "Look at you," Meixia glared at her, "Do you have to be so full of yourself?"

  "Why can't I? This is called confidence, understand?"

  "I spit it out, obviously it's just Wang Po selling melons."

  "As long as the melons can be sold, what's wrong with exaggerating a bit?"

  "...... Indeed shameless......"

  Digression

  I took a closer look at the comments today and I know that everyone is getting impatient, but I still want to say a couple of things. Farming literature is just about everyday family life, how can it be exciting all the time? The recent chapters are indeed depressing, but they're all for setting up the plot later on. This is the characteristic of farming literature, everything is for foreshadowing the later plot... Hehe, everyone please be patient. Besides, various powerful characters have not appeared yet, how can Li Xiao appear so quickly?